Sex and relationships are central to how we experience connection, safety, and identity. When difficulties arise through trauma, painful experiences, life transitions, or long-standing patterns, they can touch far more than intimacy, shaping how safe we feel in our bodies, how we see ourselves, and how we relate to others.

For many people, these struggles are deeply personal and often carried in silence.



We nurture

Body Neutrality

Erotic Wellbeing

Relational Depth

Sex-Positive Care

Gender, Sex & Relationship Diversity

Attachment & Relational Repair

Psychological Safety

Post-Traumatic Growth

You may be seeking support because:

  • Compulsive or secretive sexual behaviours feel difficult to manage
  • Intimacy feels tense, painful or emotionally overwhelming
  • Fertility, reproductive or medical experiences have altered your relationship with your body and your partner
  • Desire has shifted or feels absent
  • Trust has been ruptured following infidelity or other forms of betrayal
  • Shame or anxiety makes connection feel unsafe

We work holistically and trauma-informed, recognising that sexual and relational difficulties are rarely isolated issues. They are shaped by biological factors, psychological history, attachment patterns, cultural context, and lived experience.

Many difficulties around intimacy are not signs of dysfunction. They are intelligent adaptations to experiences that once felt overwhelming or unsafe.

As a specialist London clinic, we maintain high standards of trauma-informed, systemic and psychosexual care.  Where appropriate and with consent, we collaborate alongside medical and pelvic health professionals to support integrated care.

"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives."

-Esther Perel

meet the

founder

Eva Koumpli
Founder & Clinical Director

I am a fully accredited Psychotherapist, Therapeutic Coach, and Clinical Supervisor with over 22 years of experience in the field of mental health.
My clinical work focuses on trauma, sexuality, relationships, gender and relationship diversity, compulsive sexual behaviours, eating disorders and cross-addictions. Throughout my career, I have worked across a broad range of settings, including the NHS, HM Prison Service, private rehabilitation centres, therapeutic communities, non-governmental organisations, and private practice. I have previously held senior leadership roles as Clinical Director of an outpatient eating disorders service and Clinical Manager of a specialist counselling service for women.
These experiences, alongside the depth of work undertaken with clients and colleagues over two decades, led to the formation of the London Clinic for Sex and Relationship Therapy.
The clinic was founded in response to a consistent need: specialist, trauma-informed care that approaches sexuality, intimacy, and relational life with both clinical rigour and psychological sensitivity.
My approach is holistic, inclusive and depth-oriented. I believe that effective therapy attends to root causes rather than symptoms alone, and that many difficulties around sex, relationships, food, or self-worth are intelligent adaptations to earlier experiences. Therapy 

offers a structured and respectful space to understand these adaptations and, where possible, to reshape them.
Mental health care should not be reserved for moments of crisis. Psychological wellbeing is foundational to how we relate, love, work, and inhabit our bodies. At the London Clinic for Sex and Relationship Therapy, we aim to provide thoughtful, specialist support that reflects the complexity of the individuals and couples we work with.
We are committed to offering a confidential, inclusive, and ethically grounded service, welcoming people across cultures, body sizes, genders, and relationship structures.

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